My girlfriend wears nothing sexy. She's in her mid-30s, good-looking, fit. Many of her friends/siblings wear clothes that I find quite sexy. But she just doesn't.
Frustrates the hell out of me.
About a year ago I bought her some wickedweasel lingerie. At first she didn't want to even put that on, but I convinced her eventually. She looked hot. I told her so. We ended up having some of the best sex we've ever had.
She's never worn it since.
I've asked her about it twice. Told her I would love to see her wear it again and she said that she would. The last time several months ago. Yet, nothing... Yesterday we went out for a movie and dinner. I bought her flowers, I did the washing. I'm no fashion designer, but I pull out my best shirt/jeans/jacket combo. All she needs to do is get ready to go. The weather is perfect. What does she wear? Plain cotton panties, sportsbra, polo shirt, jeans. WTF!
This is why I watch porn behind her back. This is why I will cheat on her at the first available opportunity. Because she simply doesn't even try to be sexy. No inkling that she needs to turn me on a bit sometimes. This leaves me so fucking horny every time I see anyone in a short skirt or tight top that I don't think I would be able to resist any sort of seduction by a woman who's anywhere above a 6/10.
We've been together for a long time (>10 years) and it was better initially. She used to wear things like camisole tops (even without bra), sexy shorts, etc. Never fancied skirts or dresses much, but at least back then she showed a bit of skin every now and then.
I've spoken to her about it so many times, I just don't feel it's worth it even trying anymore. I love her, but I need to see her sexy side sometimes and it just ain't there. What to do?
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